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This is, indeed, awesome It is appalling to see how many women that are beautiful believe they're not just because of the size they are. But still, some of us must acknowledge that looks aren't our strong point, whatever size we are. And that's still ok. I'm one of the unfortunate ones. I am not pretty, by most all? And that's totally separate from the fact that I'm fat.
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I would never shame anyone no matter their gender, so thanks for letting me clarify! I added this, because many people mistook my paragraph: To clarify, in this case, when I say "hot" I mean gorl "hot". This is not meant to fat shame any gender, as hot is relative and an individual opinion.
This paragraph is mean to dispel the myth that atypical bodies can't be paired with typically attractive bodies. This is false, and women need to know that all bodies can be paired with all bodies. When reading, also llooking in mind that I happen to be attracted to conventionally attractive men.
Yay for constructive conversation on the internet! Something we all could use more of! I love this post. It is currently being shared around my Facebook group. In the last year, I have come to love my body and my curves.
So many of the things you said are right on. Simply love it. I know people with anorexia that have the same struggles and thought systems. I mentioned in the above comment that I don't have the experience to write about that since I've never been gir, but all of this applies to all body types!Hot Fuck Henryville
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With Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again, I was with you up until this point too. Certainly your overall message is geared toward self-confidence and not destroying yourself over what others or society deems beautiful, but with this line I couldn't help but see that, despite everything we may feel I'm quite confident and happy with my present frame, but I work out to attain my ideal health and appearance we aren't "conventionally" attractive, which I feel is the real crux agaiin the matter.
I'm overweight, and thus I'm not attractive, save for to those Ladies want nsa PA Greentown 18426 are into bigger frames, as an example statement. What I feel is important to promote is that we staft be aware of our size, whether under or overweight. For health's sake, we shouldn't ignore this fact and strive datjng better health, and without shaming ourselves, with better diet, exercise, etc, without so much focus on body image.
At the same time, we shouldn't hate ourselves nor claim to be beautiful. If every body dafing is beautiful and beauty is subjective, then we are and are not.
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Again, I would like to clarify that I support what you're writing, but these body-acceptance support pieces always seem to me to either come off as hypocritical thin-shamingnaive fat is attractive, everyone is wrong, my health is greator disingenuous.
I admire that your piece Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again off sincere and doesn't fall short in these ways, the way so many others do, as I was losing hope in this whole Not sure what you'd call it. Love it. The only thing that gives me hesitation is the line about finding "conventionally gorgeous" guys -- I get what you're saying, but it seems like a bit of a double standard to practice radical self-acceptance which is awesome while applying a "conventional" metric in evaluating others.
It's important to appreciate that sexy and gorgeous come in all kinds of shapes and sizes in other people too. So, by that standard you are admitting that fat women are not "conventionally attractive" either? Or can only men be held to a "conventional" standard?
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This article has helped me think that I need to pinch myself and realize I am pretty or something. But my internal voice keeps saying "lying to yourself doesn't make it a fact". I don't really know what I"m trying to say, maybe I just needed to vent. Also, I like your blog. Consider the possibility of changing your body in a way that you can feel that people aren't lying.
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But, there's nothing inherently wrong with being overweight, save for what it may mean for your health, if it is a problem that is. Do what you need to do to be truly happy with yourself, just try to minimize the amount that you shame yourself based on the opinions of others.
Everyone is beautiful to avain, you just need to find how to be beautiful to you. It's taken a lot of experimentation on my end to figure out what that means, but it includes everything from the clothes I wear to how I treat other people Try a different pair of loooing And don't forget to thank Blogger to link your nice and positive article to all the body-negative posts in the blogosphere Just because you mentioned 'fat'.
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Keep up the good work. What I find most interesting in all this is that the focus of this article seems rather superficial to me It just seems to me that if a guy wrote this article.
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Sexsi seeking Allendorf Iowa personally prefer the curvy figured woman but to hear or read thoughts like this from a barbie doll or a bbw would just make me turn and find someone else worthy of my time.
Sorry if my words offend, but this blog felt very offensive to me. I think "fat" "skinny" and "normal" girls alike all need to start seeing themselves as something much more than a sexual object To keep this brief: This was meant to be superficial, because my bangin' body isn't to be ignored. I'm brainy and beautiful. That happens.
Hey, just because people are "hot" by normal standards, does NOT mean they have a "lackluster" mind. That is absolute crap. I weigh and I have a 4 yr degree,dedicate my life to helping people, and am the nicest person anyone could Good pussy Beverly Kentucky. If you dont want "fat" stereotypes then dont talk bout "skinny" stereotypes.
Whether someone is fat or skinny has nothing to do with how good their personality or mind is. Just as being fat or skinny has nothing to do with beauty. These things are NOT mutually exclusive, they're not even related! Let me start by saying that I'm coming at this as a former big girl who dropped pounds and got into the competitive fitness world. I mean NO disrespect, and I love the rest of this, but honestly, I don't think I would highlight men's willingness to have sex with fat women as anything special.
Plenty of dudes will sleep with pretty much anyone. I got hit on MORE often by conventionally "hot" dudes when I was fat - but it wasn't because they were attracted to bigger women, it was Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again they see big girls as an easy lay. I started Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again about it when I lost weight, and a good number of my Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again friends have confirmed the notion - there are different standards for what you date and what you bang.
Now if a hot guy wants to date you and show you off to his friends, that's awesome. I had a few wonderful relationships when I was bigger. If your whole interaction involves getting picked up and whisked away for bedroom action, but nothing further ever develops No disrespect taken!
It isn't anything special, and all bodies get with all Cute curvy girl looking to start dating again. I never curvt that and wanted to bring it into the open for people like me: I've pretty much come to accept that, other than my husband of course and a few select men here and there I'm the woman who looks at a hot guy or, and maybe especially, an attractive woman and just pretty much assumes they find me unattractive.
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To which I have finally accepted who I am. And finally able to love myself. And your article has re-enforced this for me and no doubt countless other women: You might be surprised how many men need curby read this blog. Not for their girlfriend's self image, but for their own! I know, I was one! And I'm told fairly frequently that I'm attractive and still find it hard to believe.
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All I can say is I'm 48 and still looking for that super hunk of my dreams! None of this negates the health problems agian.
I have known many beautiful overweight people, inside and out, but most of them now have joint problems, heart problems, kidney problems or something else related to being overweight. Everyone should love themselves but that includes looking after yourself. Datin is the key no matter what you look like.
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Whatever makes you happy and healthy! And I totally agree with your personal experience I am exactly the same way. My point being that you don't have to constantly try to seem like youre changing your body because you're fat: It's different.
I'm having a really hard time with body acceptance right now. I know that I need to be more forgiving, but it can be very difficult sometimes. My husband tells me on a daily basis that I'm beautiful and he absolutely loves my body as much as he loves me.
I really want to be able to believe him. Thank you for this post, I'm going to bookmark it and go back to it when I need it.
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